Check out my first ever videocast below! Who are we lying to when we lie? OK, so that’s a rhetorical question. Of course the answer is “to ourselves”… Right? If you’re not sure about that, then you may want to read this. [pullquote]The path to self-knowledge starts with having the self-respect to speak the truth,…
Category: Saboteur
Overwhelm & Procrastination: Break free of the Pattern!
Before you can break free of Overwhelm & Procrastination you’ve got to recognize that there is a pattern… http://www.buzzsprout.com/3089/46494-overwhelm-procrastination-break-free-of-the-pattern.js?player=small My more recent posts have looked at Overwhelm, Procrastination, Perfectionism and Survival Mode… what have they got in common? They constitute a pattern that I’m coining as OPPS℠. There are no doubt times in our lives…
The Perfection Trap
[buzzsprout episode=”44428″ player=”true”] I hate to burst your bubble, but there is no such thing as a “perfect human.” In fact “perfection”, by any typical definition, is a myth. If personal perfection means to be “flawless” then the entire world would have to perceive you as such. But if you’re dead-set on “flawlessness”, here are…
Healing Your Relationship With Yourself
[buzzsprout episode=”43156″ player=”true”] Perhaps it’s not a coincidence that my top two most popular pod casts were released three days apart: “Procrastination” and “If you can’t trust yourself, who can you trust?” I believe that both concepts reflect a society-wide betrayal of “self”. You would think that we would honor our relationships to ourselves first. I’m…
On Your Marks.
http://www.buzzsprout.com/3089/40707-on-your-marks.js?player=small Many of today’s thought-leaders tout the importance of living meaningful lives. They provide profound and deeply meaningful offerings to get us moving: step-by-step solutions, workbooks, and inspirational videos, transformational prose, pod casts, workshops, seminars… and nearly all of the information can be powerful, and holds true wisdom. They incite us to: make powerful contributions…
Why “Surviving” is Killing You
[buzzsprout episode=”40177″ player=”true”] “Huh?” Yup, that’s right. “Killing time” is killing you. You, with the baffled expression on your face staring into the computer screen, you are here for a reason… Whether you believe in a “higher power” or not, there is something you are uniquely suited for, your “gift”, something that brings some light…
Fear is your guide
[buzzsprout episode=”32140″ player=”true”] Fear is your guide to what, eh? The deepest recesses of your soul? Yikes! And… YES. FEAR is your Saboteur’s weapon of choice… It’s how it controls you how it manipulates you into being paralyzed in the corner and… FEAR is just a feeling… that happens to point to your heart’s desire. Fear…
The DOLDRUMS
[buzzsprout episode=”44592″ player=”true”] Ugh… ever have one of those days where you just doubt everything you do? Where you wonder if you’ll ever make an impact upon the world? Ever make a difference? The only thing that goes through your mind is “I suck at this”? No? Hmm… I’ve gotta say, I don’t believe you….
The Shadow Knows…
[buzzsprout episode=”25561″ player=”true”] Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you’re a mile away and you have their shoes. — Unknown (But Seriously… 😉 ) Whenever you attempt to deny or repress… shadow selves, it only serves to add to their power. — Raphael…
When is Enough, enough?
[buzzsprout episode=”23818″ player=”true”] What does “enough” look like in our lives and how will we know when we’ve got it? Somewhere along the line, “enough” became synonymous with “more” which evolved into a future destination that can never be reached. What about what’s actually here right now? I recently had the pleasure of listening to…